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When the child is asked to be a carrier of adult messages

30. March 2011.
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From the Book: Working with high-conflict families of divorce

Written by: Prof. Sc.D. Gordana Buljan Flander

School should be both educational and upbringing institution – any violence is unacceptable

Director's noteIn recent days the whole country was strongly impressed by the reports about violent behavior of students towards the teacher and violent response of that teacher towards students. It seems that the public is polarized in the "us and them" way and that the story of one incident in Cakovec school has taken considerably larger proportions. There are public discussions about the rights of the children and the teachers, about the needs, rules, support or lack of support, and it is not good that some teachers even labelled children as bullies, which creates lynching atmosphere against these children and their parents. Any hate speech in public space is not acceptable.

Published: 12. December 2018. | Read more >

What made it easier for me to bear the burden of divorce

Parent to parent TopicsAt the very beginning of the process of divorce I was not aware of the pitfalls in which I found myself at all. The biggest burden at that time were my feelings of confusion, hurt and anger. All this resulted in a strong sense of fear, which sometimes literally paralyzed me and caused panic. Numerous questions have been opened every day, on that I alone could not find an answer.

Published: 15. August 2018. | Read more >